Friday 24 August 2012

cheating and moving on

Hey world.....

well recently i found 'my now past tense boyfriend'...with another woman....and at that point  i honestly didnt know how to react because i never thought i would find myself in such a position so i did abosultely nothing..i kept quiet and left...he tried talking to me but no words could come out of my mouth..it was hard not knowing how to react to such a situation so i went and did research on what to do.....


so ladies if you find your boyfriend cheating...here are a few things you can do....


1. Stay Mum and plan the perfect revenge plan

i know our first instict is to cause as much damage or even more to your boyfriend...maybe hurl some insults at him....but ladies first of all...keep quiet and digest the situation...even though you’re tempted to scream at him or post ranting comments on Facebook about how unimpressive he is in the sack, you’ll be better off if you say nothing to him or about him until your blood stops boiling plan and come up with a perfcet revenge plan..the perfect plan has no hurry....

keep your lips together

step number 2. Contain the News

 

As women, it’s our nature to share. It’s how we get through the grieving process. But spilling the gory details to everyone you know could backfire big-time if you ultimately decide to stay together.

. here is my reason for telling you this..

If you let the world know he cheated on you, the world is going to form an opinion of him. Then, not only do you have to forgive him, but if you take him back, you have to defend him, and that’s going to get old. simple and clear. but if you know you are done....still contain the news and only reveal after he has suffered sufficiently....


step 3. get a good alcohol.

 

....be-friend a vodoski,gin,wine...whatever you drink go buy in plently....the perfect revenge plan will appear to you like a burning bush in the wilderness when you are insufficiently intoxicated....whatever is your drug of choice...dont be shy and take a moment with it...

 

 

 

4.send him a present to show him exactly what he is going to look like.... here is a copy of mine....whats yours?



Be Patient with the Healing Process


5.lastly, stand and know your future from then on...dont look back but know that there is always someone better out there for you...dont accept to be cheated on!

Decide to Stay or Go

 

there is my 2 cents worth of advice....no lady deserves to be cheated on....


 

 

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